Divorce made my wife more sexual? (self.sex)
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About 3 years ago my wife and I finally divorced after 21 long years of marriage. Both of our children were out of the house and for the most part it an amicable separation. We worked well as a team but the love and spark in our marriage, and we pretty much became roommates. Sex was rather dull, and we'd have it about once a month, wife didn't like it when I pressured her for sex so we only did it when she would initiate.
Well I am 48 and she is 45 and I have to say the divorced life has been good. I know a lot of guys are blind sided by divorce but ours we talked about a good bit prior to getting ball rolling.
Since then I did what a lot of guys would do I went out to enjoy getting laid. Which I have to say is much easier now that I am older. Women around my own age are the easiest to sleep with and are much more eager to please. When I was younger I always thought "am I good enough, will I last long enough." Now the tables have turned. I have had a good bit of blow jobs some that went on for 15-20 minutes. I had anal sex with three of the girls I was seeing. Seems like women in general are more sexual.
I have tried to get with women in their 30's however they are usually looking to start a family and I have no intentions of going through that again.
Well since the divorce sex life has been awesome I have moved about an hour away from where I lived. I don't know how my wife has been doing dating wise. But the dynamic between me and her has shifted.
A while back she started calling me asking to check up on my new place. We start talking later end up having sex, and well my exwife became much more attentive. She will ask me if she did a good job (before I was supposed to be lucky just for having sex), what she can do to make things better. Oh and every time she comes over she is shaved (couple times waxed as well). However, she will never say she is coming over for sex even though that's pretty much all we do. She drives an hour down to my place waxed either in cute underwear or lingerie (before was only on special occasions) and cook dinner with me and then leave.
All the while I have two other girls I am seeing at the same time.
I don't understand why such a shift and why dating is so much easier now. I never was the player type guy, I am not smooth, yet I am still doing good with women.
I know that women outlive men but that's usually in the 70s when that takes effect.
My wife becoming more sexual I am not sure why. Wife and I have no plans on getting back together so trying to "lock me down" doesn't add up. I am thinking she might have fucked another guy and that got her all sexual again?
I don't know and why is dating for me so much easier? ( I am not rich either)
14 comments submitted at 08:43:58 on Jan 8, 2014 by throwaway99913