gender policing in dykesgonemild (self.actuallesbians)

17 ups - 20 downs = 0 votes

hello,

i posted a picture of me in dykesgonemild and i experienced gender policing only for looking like a guy and not shaving off my beard.

wtf

14 comments submitted at 02:37:28 on Sep 3, 2013 by kbrooks

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  • geektrix
  • 5 Points
  • 03:19:02, 3 September

You are adorable. Sorry about the assholes. I suggest we just ignore them and the misgendering.

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  • kbrooks
  • 5 Points
  • 03:31:47, 3 September

thanks!!!

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  • turniptown
  • 4 Points
  • 05:22:15, 3 September

I'm sorry some people can be so ignorant =(

But keep your head held high, hun! You're a lovely lady and you seem like an awesome person! =)

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  • Slyfox00
  • 6 Points
  • 02:58:22, 3 September

Too much hate in those comments. I'm sorry, totally uncalled for.

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  • [deleted]
  • -3 Points
  • 03:08:37, 3 September

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  • Illogical_Fallacy
  • 11 Points
  • 03:21:08, 3 September

Transphobia will not be tolerated in AL. You have been warned.

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  • deathbylife
  • 3 Points
  • 05:37:07, 3 September

<3

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  • [deleted]
  • 0 Points
  • 03:24:46, 3 September

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  • code-sloth
  • 5 Points
  • 03:35:55, 3 September

Perpetuating it in either direction doesn't seem to be a good idea at this point. The idea behind removing the comment is to stop it from spawning others.

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  • Slyfox00
  • 2 Points
  • 03:37:06, 3 September

Good call, I'm turning in for the evening, sleep tight AL.

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  • Vanityisundead
  • 4 Points
  • 02:49:21, 3 September

I'm so sorry that happened to you, as a fellow queer trans woman , I was taken aback by the things they said about you. I don't know what else to say , but I hope you're staying strong.

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  • fingersteepleofevil
  • 1 Points
  • 16:20:41, 3 September

Fuck 'em.

Been with my girlfriend for a decade. Still love it when she grows her beard out every once in a while. No problem reading you correctly, there are dozens of other "gender cues" besides a patch of follicles.

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  • Faithlessfate
  • 1 Points
  • 08:10:09, 3 September

Stay strong, honey. I'm of trans experience, and grew up around a lot of queer trans people. You are beautiful, and you are loved.

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  • Freya-Freed
  • 0 Points
  • 10:41:19, 3 September

I'm sorry that happened. We have no control over dykesgonemild. have you tried contacting the mods there?

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  • kbrooks
  • 0 Points
  • 13:38:47, 3 September

The comments in question have been removed since my posting.