So sick of TRP, RPW, and Terpers!!!! (self.TheBluePill)
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So I found TRP a few months ago or so and started to see RP behavior in my ex bf who I'm still talking to. All my friends and family hate him, but I see "the real him" or some kind of BS like that, so we keep talking. Just to warn you, this story doesn't really have a point except for me to vent.
So this guy, we'll call him Shawn, is a very "manly-man". He's ex-Marine, has serious anger issues, PTSD, etc. I try to be understanding of his behavior because of everything he's been through, but he treats me like SHIT for no reason every once in awhile and it is so annoying! If you've read any of my other posts, he's the same guy who sent me the dirty picture of him and his new girlfriend in Vegas when we broke up about a year and a half ago.
His latest thing was tonight. My birthday is coming up this weekend, and we've had plans for about 5 weeks now that I was going to drive to his house to hang out for the weekend. Now he's not sure if he really wants to hang out because he's got x,y, and z to do this weekend instead. I call him to try to figure out the plan and to see if I need to make some last minute plans with other friends.
He basically won't talk to me about it the ENTIRE conversation. He just says that I am being "fucking annoying" and he's trying to watch Law and Order SVU right now, and he doesn't give a shit, so I should just make other plans. He does these kind of temper tantrums all the time. If I ever try to talk to him when it's not perfectly convenient for him, he says I'm being a needy, annoying, bitch, and he'll hang up on me and forward my calls to VM. This conversation ended with him saying, "Get off my fucking line", and hanging up on me. I texted him and said I won't be seeing him this weekend. He replied "K".
Anyways, I've talked to him about TRP and TBP stuff lately and I HATE that he does the kind of shit they advocate. The thing is though, he can be the sweetest guy ever, and when he is, I do everything for him... make dinner, clean his house, little sex kitten, all of it. It's stupid to me that Terpers think this kind of behavior gets them anywhere, cuz when Shawn does it, we just end up fighting. He always manages to convince me later though he's sorry, etc, etc.
Has anyone else start to see TRP behavior in a SO or someone they're dating? How do you deal with it? TRP behavior and sociopathic behavior go hand in hand IMO, and I kind of think it is dangerous to be associated with these kinds of people. I actually noticed sociopathic behavior in Shawn before discovering TRP or TBP. Part of me really thinks it's time to cut my losses and move on.
5 comments submitted at 08:06:27 on Feb 19, 2014 by muffy2008