They have such a wonderful relationship and our lives are perfect...I just don't have the heart to tell him. (i.imgur.com)

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526 comments submitted at 17:21:35 on Feb 20, 2014 by BrotherSonThrowaway

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  • thepottsy
  • 499 Points
  • 17:41:48, 20 February

I somehow doubt that your "lives are perfect", if you fucked your father in law.

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  • BrotherSonThrowaway
  • -243 Points
  • 18:09:27, 20 February

Well, I'm very thankful to where my life is right now. I have a decent job, but my husband makes pretty good money doing what he does, so we have a nice house in a upscale suburban area. We have another child, a girl 4 years younger than my son (this is his though). Our family life is great and happy. My relationship with the father-in-law is okay. We both mutually decided to end the affair years ago when I found out I was pregnant. It's a bit weird, because him and I are really the only two people that know, but staying over at the in-laws isn't as awkward for me as you would expect. So, I feel very grateful for having the lives we have now, but theres always that guilt in the bottom of my heart that maybe I dont really deserve all of this.

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  • Elephant_on_Stilts
  • 274 Points
  • 18:41:16, 20 February

> I feel very grateful for having the lives we have now, but theres always that guilt in the bottom of my heart that maybe I dont really deserve all of this.

You don't. Would be a shame if a medical emergency came up in the future and your husband found out that he cannot donate blood or organs to save his own son or vice-versa.

For every ounce of shit you are his father is twice that, and trust me you are a huge bag of shit.

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  • ahmah-dayus
  • 84 Points
  • 21:44:08, 20 February

You've basically just written an episode of House M.D.

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  • 2sly_4you
  • 12 Points
  • 00:07:44, 21 February

BRILLIANT!

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  • Calzin_Z
  • 2 Points
  • 06:05:11, 21 February

This was an episode of House. Though with teens and not adults.

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  • ahmah-dayus
  • 1 Points
  • 13:18:37, 21 February

Yeah with the dad and the sperm. That fucking show..

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  • DWilcox1
  • 15 Points
  • 21:59:00, 20 February

I do have an question. So because her husband's dad is the father would the son still not share partly the same dna as her husband? Mathematically like a 1/4?

Or is that ignorant to assume.

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  • ShenaniganNinja
  • 18 Points
  • 22:15:43, 20 February

Genetically actually the child would be his half brother. So the amount of genetics between a half brother, and a child, are pretty close.

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  • OakTable
  • 7 Points
  • 01:03:26, 21 February

The husband got 1/2 his DNA from his father, 1/2 from his mother. If it was his son, it would have 1/2 of his DNA. Since it's his half brother, the half brother could have inherited a different 1/2 from their dad than he did and thus have no DNA in common, or it could be the same half, and thus they would have 1/2 their DNA in common, but most likely it's a mix and match with some chromosomes passed down being the same ones and some being different, and would be about 1/4 DNA in common.

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  • javan_7
  • 4 Points
  • 01:11:11, 21 February

His mother's dna would be missing? I hope that's what I'm getting here.

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  • OakTable
  • 2 Points
  • 02:17:20, 21 February

Yeah, they have different mothers, and so wouldn't have that DNA in common.

Basically, I was saying one's kid always has 1/2 of your DNA, but how much a sibling shares with you can vary.

Um, here's a quote from Wikipedia on Chromosomes (I'm not factoring in the crossover bit in my posts):

>Sexually reproducing species have somatic cells (body cells), which are diploid [2n] having two sets of chromosomes, one from the mother and one from the father. Gametes, reproductive cells, are haploid [n]: They have one set of chromosomes. Gametes are produced by meiosis of a diploid germ line cell. During meiosis, the matching chromosomes of father and mother can exchange small parts of themselves (crossover), and thus create new chromosomes that are not inherited solely from either parent. When a male and a female gamete merge (fertilization), a new diploid organism is formed.

Anyway... people have 23 pairs of chromosomes (total 46). So, for one chromosome one sibling might get one (let's call it A), and another sibling get a different one (let's call it B). Or they could get the same one (both get A or both get B). And it's like that for the rest of them, too. It's random which 23 out of your parent's 46 chromosomes you get. From your dad you might get:
ABAABBAABAAABBAABBBBBBA while your sibling gets:
BBABAABAABABABABABBAABB.

Then there's a whole 'nother set from your mom (let's call those C and D), and your sibling gets a whole 'nother set from their mom (in the case of having different moms, let's call those D and E).

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  • DWilcox1
  • 2 Points
  • 01:46:59, 21 February

That makes a lot more sense.

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  • KhompS
  • 1 Points
  • 05:43:46, 21 February

Well that really doesn't matter, what matters is whether or not they have compatible blood types.

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  • Crgspawn
  • 10 Points
  • 21:13:24, 20 February

I don't normally upvote these kind of posts but I can't help but agree with you 110%

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  • Lanxie
  • 29 Points
  • 22:16:52, 20 February

You're a shitty wife and you deserve nothing but unhappiness.

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  • thepottsy
  • 149 Points
  • 18:11:48, 20 February

That's because you DON'T deserve any of it. You sound like a very selfish person.

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  • BrotherSonThrowaway
  • -148 Points
  • 18:55:18, 20 February

Yes I made a horrible mistake in the past. I dont expect anyone to forgive me what I did. But believe me when I say I do my hardest to be a great wife and mother to my family. I work a full-time job, I take care of the kids, keep our house clean, make sure we have a good meal to eat, etc. They should be grateful to have me. I am not a perfect person, but I have honestly tried living a good life. It isnt like Im going around cheating on my husband, or neglecting my kids or my duties, and just making life an unbearable mess for everyone.

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  • TexasBarbie
  • 51 Points
  • 00:04:11, 21 February

You keep naming things you do and expect people to be grateful to have you? Youre a mom. Point blank, thats just what you fuckin' do as a mom. "Cleaning the house, cooking food, etc etc" youre fuckin' kidding me, right? Ive been doing that since I was 15 and pregnant and I never expected a reward. Im still with my husband of 7 years and I work two jobs. Stupid bitch.

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  • tayroar1
  • 6 Points
  • 00:32:47, 21 February

Testify, girl. I love this comment. Good for you.

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  • gokuudo
  • 3 Points
  • 03:43:32, 21 February

i love you, stay sane.

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  • ampellang
  • 55 Points
  • 23:18:42, 20 February

>do my hardest to be a great wife and mother to my family. I work a full-time job, I take care of the kids, keep our house clean, make sure we have a good meal to eat, etc.

Sweet, you take care of your basic responsibilities in life. That's almost as awesome as not fucking your husband's dad.

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  • Lifio
  • 27 Points
  • 22:02:54, 20 February

I don't buy this story, at all. I think its fake and lame.

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  • FarsightedCon
  • 12 Points
  • 22:27:43, 20 February

I'd buy this story. It's a page turner.

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  • NDaveT
  • 6 Points
  • 23:55:00, 20 February

I'd watch the Lifetime movie.

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  • cosmo_bear
  • 3 Points
  • 00:36:50, 21 February

Hmmm...this is actually a great idea for lifetime. Make throwaway accounts telling horrible stories about marriages. Whichever ones get the best reaction get made into movies.

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  • self_master
  • 3 Points
  • 03:17:22, 21 February

The movie ends in a murder/suicide when the husband finds out.

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  • purdster83
  • 2 Points
  • 02:51:33, 21 February

Nah, that's where I draw the line. I fold.

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  • Togarda
  • 26 Points
  • 23:50:53, 20 February

>It isnt like Im going around cheating on my husband

Not anymore maybe, but you did. With his father. This is some serious soap opera type drama right here. Except worse.

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  • lightstorm33
  • 129 Points
  • 21:02:24, 20 February

YOU FUCKED HIS DAD NOT SOME RANDOM DUDE stop acting like youre a good person i cant fucking believe you said they should be grateful to have you youre a shitty person

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  • drumming_is_for_men
  • 21 Points
  • 00:20:47, 21 February

"They should be grateful to have me." Are you kidding? I would love to see you tell him what you did and see how grateful he is. You're not only a shitty person but completely delusional. Seek professional help.

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  • fatkidswinatseesaw
  • 1 Points
  • 12:27:33, 21 February

"Oh baby thank you so much for fucking my dad, I'm so lucky to have you!!"

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  • SgtFgtNgr
  • 14 Points
  • 00:47:27, 21 February

Grateful to have you, the woman who fucked her husband's father and birthed her husband's brother? Grateful to have you, the woman who is constantly lying about the truth over her husband's brother and affair? Grateful to have you, the woman who is to fucking scared to be an adult and own up to her mistakes and be truthful to the man she married and her son, you husband's brother?

No. You should be grateful for having them. Not vice versa. You're the plague.

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  • EMPER0R
  • 22 Points
  • 22:49:57, 20 February

How can you have the audacity to say that "they should be grateful to have me." when you fucked your husband's dad. I bet your husband wouldn't feel that way if he knew you fucked his dad.

There isn't a word in the dictionary that accurately describes how terrible of a person you are.

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  • y_u_do_dis_2_me
  • 9 Points
  • 00:51:50, 21 February

A shitty person will always make up reasons to tell themselves that they are really a good person, but the fact that you can hold down a job and raise your children isn't even one of those. That's just shit everybody has to do. How you can somehow be twisted enough in the head to come out of that thinking that anybody should be grateful is surprising. Trying to live a good life doesn't mean shit if you failed at it. It IS like you go around cheating on your husband, because you did. With his dad. Saying "at least I'm not neglecting my kids" doesn't make you less of a piece of shit. Good troll though, would get angry again.

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  • whadahfuqies
  • 7 Points
  • 00:35:05, 21 February

No one can forgive you if you don't tell them the truth. You shouldn't expect anything if your family is a lie.

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  • benoxxxx
  • 5 Points
  • 00:40:03, 21 February

Stop making excuses. You're scum. I'd sooner die than marry a woman like you.

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  • CarbonBeauty
  • 5 Points
  • 00:43:47, 21 February

But you DID cheat on your husband AND you're lying to him. You've already made things a mess. If it ever comes out in the future (medical emergency, etc.) imagine all the additional heartache you're going to cause for keeping the secret for so long?

Saying that they should be grateful to have you is absolute horse shit. Your husband deserves a woman who will do the things you do and NOT fuck his father. All those things you do is called being a fucking adult, stop expecting a pat on the back or any other kind of justification for your mistakes.

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  • Rickrickrickrickrick
  • 2 Points
  • 02:27:15, 21 February

Keeping up this lie is just making it more and more horrible everyday.

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  • GoochRash
  • 3 Points
  • 03:40:40, 21 February

> They should be grateful to have me

No, they shouldn't.

> It isnt like Im going around cheating on my husband

But you did. With his Dad. Do you realize how horrible a person has to be to do that? I don't think you do. This isn't a mistake that you just say "oops" over. This is a fuck up of epic proportions. And the fact that you try to justify hiding it just makes you even more pathetic.

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  • elle_lawliet
  • 1 Points
  • 03:29:47, 21 February

"I'm so grateful that my son is my brother" is this what your husband would say. It sure as hell isn't what I would. Bitch.

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  • dumpbound
  • 2 Points
  • 09:25:27, 21 February

Your self delusion masks a double standard that is a plain as day. You claimed before that you refused to consider an abortion when you got pregnant through your affair because abortions are immoral and wrong and "another wrong won't fix the first one". Yet you defend yourself now by trying to convince us how hard you work at living a good life now. If two wrongs don't make a right, what makes you think any effort you make now can erase the terrible decision you made years ago to cheat on your husband with his own father?

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  • mjones22
  • 1 Points
  • 09:48:10, 21 February

'It isn't like I'm going around cheating on my husband' >>>> BABY IS NOT HIS.

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  • TrueLibertyorDeath
  • 1 Points
  • 15:02:20, 21 February

You are right, all of the things you listed are good things that I'm sure you're family is grateful for. My wife does all of those things and never once fucked my dad. Weird how something like that can just overshadow all of the housecleaning in the world.

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  • lexsird
  • -1 Points
  • 01:07:17, 21 February

> They should be grateful to have me.

This one's a real piece of work, that's granted; but what is really disturbing is the entitled mindset and the clime that has bred it. This whole thread is SRS bait where they would most likely back this piece of work up.

Frankly, I think any young man is insane if he wants to marry an American girl in America. Go somewhere that isn't poisoned in the brain if you want to raise a family.

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  • Gothika_47
  • -48 Points
  • 21:24:35, 20 February

> That's because you DON'T deserve any of it.

Do you live with your moms? Do you have any idea how the world works?

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  • thepottsy
  • 37 Points
  • 21:29:48, 20 February

I know that you don't fuck your in laws, have kids by them, and claim you have a wonderful life. No, I do not live with my mom.

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  • Murgie
  • -9 Points
  • 00:40:31, 21 February

>I know that you don't fuck your in laws, have kids by them, and claim you have a wonderful life.

Why? Why isn't she better off than a good two thirds of the world?

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  • thepottsy
  • 2 Points
  • 13:26:54, 21 February

That question is too stupid to warrant a response.

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  • [deleted]
  • 57 Points
  • 19:41:10, 20 February

"maybe".... "maybe".... fucking "MAYBE"!!!!?

You don't deserve to get fucking pissed on by your husband, father-in-law/baby dady, and/or your own fucking son if you were on fire.

Every good thing you have is a fucking lie. EVERYTHING!

Seriously, if I ever found out something like this I would literally murder my wife and father.

Exceptional use of the meme, though, I do have to say, you fucking thundercunt.

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  • Hairy_Ball_Theroem
  • 38 Points
  • 21:13:20, 20 February

Exceptional use of thundercunt good sir.

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  • [deleted]
  • 6 Points
  • 21:39:24, 20 February

Somebody find out this bitches name, because she makes Erin and Susan seem adorable.

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  • l23VIVE
  • 22 Points
  • 22:10:18, 20 February

She makes Cersei Lannister seem tolerable.

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  • powderfresh_
  • 15 Points
  • 22:20:51, 20 February

Why would you refer to your daughter as "this" rather than "she"? Is it normal for children to be referred to as lifeless objects, or are you just that much of a selfish bitch?

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  • trackerjack
  • 12 Points
  • 01:09:30, 21 February

95% chance OP is a sociopath. No one with the faintest concept of other people and their feelings would do what she did.

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  • ThatLeviathan
  • 1 Points
  • 10:46:32, 21 February

95? Seems low.

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  • skrilled
  • 7 Points
  • 23:54:05, 20 February

That's because you don't deserve it. You deserve nothing but the worst, but you have found a means of manipulating people and taking advantage of people's ignorance. You are a disgusting human being though, and I hope you get what's coming to you soon.

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  • SinToWin
  • 6 Points
  • 04:19:15, 21 February

>So, I feel very grateful for having the lives we have now, but theres always that guilt in the bottom of my heart that maybe I dont really deserve all of this.

No Shit

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  • gizzreally
  • 4 Points
  • 03:47:30, 21 February

I hope you get alzheimer's and are only left with regret and despair in the final years of your life.

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  • shinjuki
  • 4 Points
  • 04:42:14, 21 February

I wouldn't think that it would be weird for you to stay at their house, seeing how you had easily fucked the dude. That would be weird for most people, but not you..

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  • idrinkirnbru
  • 4 Points
  • 06:40:34, 21 February

> staying over at the in-laws isn't as awkward for me as you would expect

I wouldn't be able to bare the shame. You're a sociopath. You need to own up to what you've done. Sure, it might break the guy, but he'll bounce back sooner or later. He'll be stonger. You'll still be nothing but a waste of space.

Edit: Just noticed you referred to your daughter as "this" instead of "she". What in the fuck is wrong with you?

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  • afuturethrowaway
  • 3 Points
  • 04:09:02, 21 February

You don't deserve any of it.

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  • skramguts
  • 5 Points
  • 22:41:39, 20 February

If you had any sense of decency you'd tell him. But of course you're an evil bitch so I doubt that'll ever happen.

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  • glashear
  • 4 Points
  • 02:18:13, 21 February

fuck you

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  • self_master
  • 3 Points
  • 03:02:51, 21 February

You totally dont deserve all that. But you best carry your shame to your grave for everyones sake.

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  • cbessemer
  • 3 Points
  • 23:57:06, 20 February

Every redditor with a son and daughter four years apart is wondering.......

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  • anonymous_troll
  • 2 Points
  • 03:34:12, 21 February

The reasons you cite for loving you life are that you have money and your husband is unaware of what you've done.

God forgives you, but what you have done is terrible, not honorable. What you've built for your family is a farce. When you are old, you will look back on your life with shame, not pride.

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  • DanishPls
  • 2 Points
  • 10:58:20, 21 February

You're such a piece of shit I hope you get what's coming to you and soon