My exfiance got cold feet, 4 years later she tells me she made a huge mistake. (self.AskMen)
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I’ll give you guys a little backstory. I met my fiancé when I was in college, we had what I’d call a perfect relationship. We were both each other’s firsts. After college we both moved to a new city and started working a life together. Our relationship was perfect, her parents loved me, my parents loved her. We both brought out the best in each other.
After being together for 6 years, I decided to propose to her, and she said yes. I started noticing that she wasn’t that excited about planning the wedding, I thought every girl planned their wedding day since they were kids. She started becoming cynical of her future, she starts pointing out to how much she missed being “tied down with me.” I found out that her older sister was sabotaging our relationship but it too late by the time I found out. She ended up breaking things off with me. To find herself, which I can only attribute to fucking other guys.
Since then I have moved on, I found other girls but none of them rival the intensity I felt for my first girlfriend. It’s so fucking pathetic, every time I read a book I imagine my fiancé as the lead female character. When I fucking jack off 90% of the time it’s to her thought.
Recently she got my number through a mutual friend. And I didn’t want to talk to her, but my emotions got the better of me. I am pretty much addicted at this point, she starts telling me everything I wanted to hear, that she made a huge mistake , that I am her soul mate. I want to blame her sister for tricking her, but I don’t know how to feel about a girl who left me for the novelty of fucking other guys. I would love love to be like fuck you bitch and move on. But is that just my pride talking? Why do I still love and care about her.
My head is a hormonal mess, I know some of you guys must be thinking I am a fucking loser for this. I am not normally like this, in all seriousness. I usually have my head on straight, I am a rational guy.
150 comments submitted at 00:49:36 on Feb 24, 2014 by fiance45