My girlfriend cheated on me while drunk, rang me straight away crying on the phone and told me. I love her and really want to stay with her but what would you guys do in this situation? (self.AskMen)
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Basically, as the title says, my girlfriend cheated on me while at a night club and then rang me straight away to tell me. She was bawling crying on the phone saying she can't believe what she did, she's ruined the best thing that's ever happened to her etc. The thing is, as much as my head is saying I should break up with her, I really love her and want to stay with her.
But is it ever okay to cheat? I mean, she was really drunk and she lost her phone and - she said so anyway - a guy came over and said he'd help her and kind of forced himself on her. They didn't have sex or anything, but they kissed and he fingered her. And I do believe her, that the guy took advantage of her, but at the same time couldn't you always resist, unless he actually raped her?. And also, I've been really drunk, like insanely drunk, before, and had girls on me and people like trying to get me and a girl to get together or whatever and never cheated. I can't believe that she actually wanted to cheat; we've been closer than ever recently and there've been no signs at all that she was getting bored or thinking about other guys or anything. None at all. I really do think it was a drunken mistake and that she is sorry for it.
But what do you guys think? I don't know if my judgement is being clouded by the fact that I'm head over heels for this girl. Is it okay to cheat briefly in that situation? Is it ever okay to cheat, at all?
27 comments submitted at 02:48:46 on Nov 2, 2013 by AWickedGuy