(M)y (24) Long term girlfriend (26) entered contest to shoot a porn scene with James Deen...wtf right? (self.sex)
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Me and my gf have been together for 4 years. Neither one of us has so much as kissed another person. As far as I knew she didn't even like porn, she has pretty much flat out refused to include it in bedroom play, and was quite offended when I told her (way earlier on in the relationship) that I watched it, but she doesn't seem to be bothered now.
Anyway, I noticed that one of her friends on facebook (work colleague) said something about James Deen. Obviously I was a bit weirded out and curious because of the whole porn thing. We normally don't keep anything from each other so I asked her about it straight up.
"Oh don't worry, it's just a joke with a few girls at work, we all applied to be in a porn scene with James Deen."
I have no idea why but at the time I laughed it off and said okay, so now I feel like I can't bring it up again. I looked at the application form on his website though..holy shit. It is not some put your name in a hat thing..it is pretty long. You have to include pictures.
So then I did something I am not proud of but something that I think pales in significance to what she has been doing. I logged onto her facebook account (had to do password recovery) and snooped.
She has been talked with her (female) Co-worker about this thing, pretty graphically. They even exchanged pictures. I literally felt sick when I saw her comment on a picture that her co-worker sent.
"Imagine a monster (dick?) like that pounding at you, yum."
I am extremely hurt, it seems like they are serious about this.
Have I got it all wrong, is it just extremely poor taste office banter?
Do I confront her? I am totally at a loss. I feel sick and paranoid.
452 comments submitted at 11:52:26 on Dec 20, 2013 by throwawayforjd