Did I dodge a bullet or am I really broken? (self.AskMen)
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So I've been single for just shy of two years now and was getting intimate with a woman over the weekend. As we were about to have sex, she stopped and asked when my last sti test was.
I said it had been somewhere between three or 4 years ago. She got a creeped out look on her face, so I explained I'd only HAD one partner in the last 5 years, I'd been clean when we started and so was she, so there was no reason to. She then got this disgusted look on her face, like there was somethin wrong with me. "So you've only been with one person in the last 4 years? How long since you've been laid". I admitted that, yes, I'd only been with one woman in the last few years, and it had been over two years since I'd had sex.
She laughed at me, gave me a quick peck, then grabbed her stuff and walked out. Saying something along the lines of, "I wanted to get FUCKED tonight, not fucking bored."
Obviously I'm not going to talk to a bitch like that again, but this is a first for me. I've never had this happen before: we were about to hook up, then I answer the sti question and get laughed off the stage. Notwithstanding that I HAVE had a lot of sex, though mostly in the context of relationships, is thi a thing now?
Is my manhood and worth really judged on my ability to get regular sex? Am I somehow less of a man because I'm not adding notches a couple times a year? Why would she have drawn all these conclusions simply because I haven't fucked in awhile?
169 comments submitted at 13:19:21 on Aug 11, 2014 by throwaway101801